We've come to the end of the two week spring break, fairly unscathed and ready to tackle the last six or so weeks of the school year. There's been some dispute {naturally, it being Algeria}as to when school would finish this year, some saying the beginning of May {yikes!} and some saying the beginning of June. We have elections happening in Algeria in May which means schools will be used as polling stations .. though judging by what Joe Public is saying on the news there's not likely to be much of a turnout! And to mix things up just a little, some teachers called la Grève yesterday, which means some or all or possibly no schools will be out on strike at some point or possibly no point during the term... it's all very organised here you know...
We also have preparations going on for April 16th which is Yowm-al-Ilm, or Day of Knowledge... unfortunately in dd13's case this means an accapella version of "We Are The World" sung to the rest of the school.... and a play she can't take part in because she's the only girl in her class who wears hijab and "it doesn't look right!"... this meant a kindly discussion on why some people aren't prepared to accept other people differences and be more amenable... I don't think she was convinced by anything I said... being the fragile 13yr old that she is, and I'm pretty sure it's going to continue to be a source of upset till it's over and done with but I guess these are the things that toughen us up and help us grow emotionally.
As usual our house has been a busy happy mix of things over the holidays, and although we didn't get to go anywhere there were a few catch ups with friends... old and new, settling into a new spring routine... longer daytime hours with Fajr prayers coming in before 5am!! and a more relaxed non-menu planning month for me....
I had slipped back into menu planning over the last two and a bit months, as a way of getting back on track with my budget, and while it worked... for the most part... it has been a relief to let it go again. As a tool it does help me to regain my footing now and again, but I'm happier not having to do it long term if I'm honest. I think it goes too much against my free-flowing ways... it sounds a bit stupid to say my menu plan makes me feel trapped, but it does... I've been a much happier and more spontaneously creative bunny this first week of April.
Budget wise.. I'm thinking up ways of not spending any money.. which isn't easy but I am trying...
Potatoes continue to be a source of annoyance here... still far too overpriced for most people to be able to afford. I'm only buying a Kilo at a time and only feeding them to the dh... the rest of us are exploring carby alternatives and patiently waiting for the price to drop. I have been a good girl though and for the most part have stopped buying bread and have been making my own, and also baking the children school-break snack... which needs some forward planning... not my strong point ... and has meant a few midnight baking sessions but we're getting there.
And finally... as if I haven't chewed your ears enough with my garbled witterings already.. the crafting is coming along nicely thank you... I very happily had my bag pinned the other day and have since started a yoga mat bag for the 20yr old....and a doily... I'm thinking of turning them into a table runner type thing. And I'm feeling very kindly towards my sewing pile these days... I haven't actually finished any of it... but there are yummy half finished girly dresses lurking ...
And on that note, there is soup to blitz, pies to make and breakfast to bake... and a very scary laundry pile to tame.
salamu aleykum,
ReplyDeletesuch a releave to read that you too prefere not to plan the meals weeks before...
I tried it and in my head i find it's a good thing but in the daily life i find it much more complicated than just cooking with what i have.
I felt i was not a good familymanager, but after reading your post, i think i'm just normal?
Salam
Yusra, the sister who got happy seeing your yellow crocheting
(sorry for my bad english)
Menu planning helps me in not having to think about what I'm going to cook... which does tend to take up a fair amount of time in my day.. but sometimes it is just alot easier to have a look in the fridge and just randomly go with what I have... I guess both ways have certain advantages for me...menu planning means I can keep a tighter hold on my budget but it also means I have less room to accommodate the unexpected.
ReplyDeleteAnother good budgeting plus for me is cooking Algerian food... it's alot more cost effective...
Assalamu alaiki,
ReplyDeleteIm just wondering what the comment about your daughters headscarf "not looking right" refers to? Is Algeria quite secular? I was just a little confused at this.
Secondly, just out of pure nosiness lol, is there anything happening to mark 50 years of the Algerian Revolution or is it just incorporated into the usual independence day celebrations that most countries have?
Algeria isn't really as secular as the government would like it to be.. and it's generally disliked for young girls to wear the headscarf... and almost all wear it through their own choice not parental pressure. It's the first time it's happened to her here, but it was a reminder of the intolerance we moved left the UK for and it was harder for her to accept here where it should, in theory be easier for her to express herself.
ReplyDeleteAs far as independence day goes, where I live there's a low-key nod to it every year... If anything more important or celebratory is happening this year, we haven't heard about it yet... Though in other parts of Algeria and in Algiers center I'm sure there will be things going on;
In general Algerians love to get out on the streets in their cars and make some noise and wave their flags whenever they have the chance. So at the very least there will be ALOT of that going on.
I didn't expect it to be like that with the scarf issue as generally out on the streets its not an issue right? I guess my daughters will have to toughen up a bit and it might be good for them ( ya Rabb) that they don't take hijab for granted like the often do here.
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